ABOUT MISTRESS DOMINIQUE

I have been many things in My life, but there was always something missing until I discovered Domination.

Being naturally Dominant I had been fulfilling Myself in many ways without actually being called Mistress, so when I looked at what that definition was, I saw that many of My traits were applicable, and many things I had as experience were an asset to Me.

I decided early on and that was about 10 yrs ago now, that I would decide on My way of being, tradition and beliefs and work to maintain that structure, and I believe that it has worked well for Me. I am 'out' and proud to say that. Ive delt with both BDSM and vanilla life and situations since, and have have been very comfortable.

I decided to become a Professional as well as a Lifestyle Mistress because I love the excitement, the diversity and the chance to really fly with Domination, I have had some amazing sessions and scenes, wouldnt have missed a minute of it, and continue to enjoy it very much. Thats dosent mean it hasnt sometimes been a stuggle, as people and society can be closed to anything different, but for Me it is important to be who you truely are.

Once I launched Myself as the real Me, I was approached to do stage appearances and Fetish Shows, and they were a lot of fun. Nothing like being up there and out after a few months !! Mostly due to that public profile, and because I am passionate about My Lifestyle, I have done TV, print and publishing interviews with a view to spreading the word, helping Women and men to see something that they might just enjoy too, and knowing that that is just ok. I love hearing that someone saw something of Me and are now investigating it all for themselves. I enjoy meeting people new to the scene, and hope that the experience will inspire them, and a few wonderful folk have gone on to enjoy a new perspective on life.

MISTRESS PURL is a great example of what can happen http://www.mistresspearl.net/ love it !

I have usually lived rurally for privacy and freedom, but I ran Club Fetish once a month in Auckland for 2 years, from the Dungeon I created and lived in there, offering top end experiences for those that were looking for the intense in a more open and social aspect than a professional session. Lots of wonderful memories...

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I also ran The Diversity Parade in K'Rd, when they said it couldnt be done..as a part of My position administering that part of the CBD for The Auckland City Council. (They said I would whip it into shape !) That was a fantastic event, not only did the bohemian area of town lay it on well, the Parade was about celebrating diversity and the culture of the area, and all the colours of the sexual and alternative were 'out' there.
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Auckland was a change of pace, a new commercial Dungeon/living space, and I didnt expect to work in the vanilla world there, least of all with all knowing who I was in that capacity, but it proved that in some circumstances being a Domina can be an asset. The space in the building I leased there for just over 2 yrs changed hands, and I wasnt prepared to renew a lease with the new owner, so onto something new, and the relaxed environment of the country again. An awesome experience and a wonderful chance to make a positive difference.

My philosophy is FemDom not quite FemSupreme, because I dont believe that all Women are Dominant/Supreme/Superior or capable of being Mistresses, although parts of this way of being can been seen in vanilla marriages, all men know that ! Also because I believe there needs to be recognition for femsubs to be who they are too. Domination is about control, control of Yourself, and the submissive or slave, the scene and the situation. Any Woman that is not in control of herself cant effectively be in control of another.

I enjoy this website and the contact it brings, the comments that I get on the Forum, the interactions in the chatroom, the opportunity to keep other Dominas as Friends that I have been online with for years, the real-life adventures, living as the FemDom in a D/s household, the folk that are attracted to living/visiting the lifestyle, the art, the style and the personal growth required to make it work and I love spending time with My peers, the mature experienced Women that 'get it' and are lifestyle too.

I am happily single, and slavesherman has served 24/7 for 8 yrs now, various subs add the colour.

I wouldnt change My journey for the world.

Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.
Albert Einstein

It isn't what I do, but how I do it. It isn't what I say, but how I say it, and how I look when I do it and say it.
Mae West

Ten men waiting for me at the door? Send one of them home, I'm tired.
Mae West